Here's a pretty from Kurt Halsey. Gorgeous emotive work.
I've been thinking and praying a lot for some friends. It has always amazed me that when you are in a relationship you are always influenced by the other person. Sometimes you can see it and are glad for it. Sometimes it's unintentional but natural to copy someone you love so much. Sometimes you fall so completely under their influence that you are unable to make decisions for your own anymore. That's when the relationship no longer reflects the good give and take relationship advocated in the Bible - where you become one flesh but remain who you are before God.